TRUST THE PROCESS
This is my number one piece of advice. You must have trust in the psychic process. It just isn’t going to work if you go into the reading hell-bent against believing that psychic phenomena is real. I’m not sure what exactly is at work perhaps the Law of Attraction? When you refuse to believe in psychic communication then psychic communication will not happen for you. That was one of the errors that I made with my first reading. I went into the reading having thoughts like “oh yeah, well then prove it.” I’m not saying that you can’t be skeptical – you can – but you can’t be totally closed to the possibility of psychic communication. If you think that psychic communication can’t happen then it won’t. Plain and simple. At the bare minimum enter the reading telling yourself that it’s OK that you don’t understand exactly how psychic communication works. That you are going to be alert to the possibility that the psychic is less than ethical but that you will remain open to the possibility that psychic communication does in fact exist. At the very least leave yourself that opening.
BE WILLING TO BE HONEST
No one knows exactly what is going to come through during a reading. Most people tend to believe that the information that comes through is what you need to hear at the present time. The psychic medium generally can’t pick and choose what information comes through. The ethical psychic medium will relay to you the information that they receive. They are pretty much the middle-man that communicates information from Spirit to you